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Was 2010 Full of Dramatic Travels?

By Kyle McNeil - Dec 30 , 2010

When you look back on 2010, what’s your story? Have you been beaten up, bruised, battered, and tossed around? Naturally, there could be any list of culprits like: competitors, start-up phase, the economy, health challenges, or learning lessons like the Law of Process.

Either way, I think there’s a place for you to authentically say, “2010 has been a tough year”. I am! With two family members passing away (including my dad), and two others going through three surgeries, I’ve pretty much been on red alert for 12 months. And I might be the first to scream YES! when midnight strikes and 2011 arrives.

Maybe you feel the same way?

It’s worth noting that tough times draws out the “real” in people. Look no further then Michael’s post, Be The Light This Holiday Season, which was the epitome of real, raw, and relevant. This type of stuff is so bonding, and here’s a quick story.

Even though he said nothing, for many months I knew a friend was having a brutally challenging 2010. All it took was one look into his pain filled eyes. Before Christmas, and through tears, he finally expressed how true this has been. His deep honesty and authenticity created instant connection and compassion towards him. Magnificently powerful, especially from a young man, because we all know “grown men don’t cry” right? (Personally, I think that’s ridiculous, because trapped emotion leads to bigger issues.)

What I really want to point out though, is finding a healthy balance, ensuring your “story of 2010” is not blown out of proportion! Tears are encouraged, just skip turning things into a drama series with re-runs. Reality is, the sooner we just accept that 2010 came and it went, things happened, and some things changed – the sooner we can just leave things as they are, take the lessons and move forward.

And, with another year beginning, it’s time to move forward (drama free).

How are you steering free of the drama in 2011?

Andrea Reindl

Kyle,
2010 was a year of rapid growth and change for me. Seriously so much happened and it moved so fast….BUT even though there was drama, truth is, I would rack it up there with one of my best because I’ve grown so much Thanks for being so honest!
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1030013040 Samantha Hall

Hi Kyle,

Happy Holidays!

Ok. I’m noticing a trend here. WHY am I particularly attracted to THESE type of posts the most on Beneath the Cover? haha

First, I just want to say my heart goes out to you for all the loss of family in such a short period of time. I only recently read about your father but had no idea you had also lost another family member!

We lost my father-in-law earlier this year. And December seemed to be filled with loss from many FB friends this year. I believe many of us will be hoping 2011 will be free of funerals. To say the least….

For me, 2010 was filled with another year of learning the difference between what I can and cannot change. What I have power over and what I do not have any power to control. And struggling to hang on to what I have not wanted to let go of.

So this past week I’ve been in a sort of ‘free fall’. Processing some information. Allowing myself to feel internally without trying to block it or resist it. (defense mechanism) And clinging to the hope, faith, and belief that this too, shall pass. That I am not without the freedom of new choices. I am simply experiencing the temporary fright of the unknown and facing the temporary void and space that comes with transition and change.

Thanks for sharing your heart again Kyle. These type of posts are definitely my favorite!

~Samantha
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1030013040 Samantha Hall

Hi Kyle,

Happy Holidays!

Ok. I’m noticing a trend here. WHY am I particularly attracted to THESE type of posts the most on Beneath the Cover? haha

First, I just want to say my heart goes out to you for all the loss of family in such a short period of time. I only recently read about your father but had no idea you had also lost another family member!

We lost my father-in-law earlier this year. And December seemed to be filled with loss from many FB friends this year. I believe many of us will be hoping 2011 will be free of funerals. To say the least….

For me, 2010 was filled with another year of learning the difference between what I can and cannot change. What I have power over and what I do not have any power to control. And struggling to hang on to what I have not wanted to let go of.

So this past week I’ve been in a sort of ‘free fall’. Processing some information. Allowing myself to feel internally without trying to block it or resist it. (defense mechanism) And clinging to the hope, faith, and belief that this too, shall pass. That I am not without the freedom of new choices. I am simply experiencing the temporary fright of the unknown and facing the temporary void and space that comes with transition and change.

Thanks for sharing your heart again Kyle. These type of posts are definitely my favorite!

~Samantha
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=605605636 Kyle McNeil

Hey Andrea,

Yeah, you’ve taken on A LOT this year – and done it with much grace. More and more I’m learning and impressed at how dynamic you are, able to take on new roles and be amazing at them!

Honesty is a big value of mine

So I’ll keep riding that train!!!

Choo choo,

Kyle
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=605605636 Kyle McNeil

Funeral free in 2011 sounds great

Yes, my sense is you’re a Humanistic type Samantha!! I am too! And I love writing these types of posts.

Thank you for your ongoing sharing, and best of luck in your transition. I bet you do have what you need!!

Bless you,
Kyle

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